Women And Depression: Made For Each
Other
Depression seems to be particularly attracted to women all over
the world without any exception whatsoever. Men get depressed
too, usually following a major upheaval in their lives, or
following a heart attack, or when they enter andropause (the
masculine of menopause) at around 50 plus years old. Women
however, have a love-hate relationship with depression through
their lives.
Why Women And Depression Are Inseparable?
If you look closely, you will observe that women’s life is
always in flux of hormones. When they are born, their body is
flush with hormones from their mother’s body (and so is the
male baby), then comes the puberty when hormones change the
girl into a woman; then comes the reproductive period where,
every time she becomes pregnant, the hormones are back in high
dosage, and after birth they are totally withdrawn. No sooner
than this phase finishes that the menopause starts and will
carry on from 5-15 years, again with the help of hormones.
This come-and-go hormones situation is what ties up women and
depression so well. Women experience their first bouts of
depression at puberty when they blame it on the many changes
that their bodies are going through. Then comes the depression
caused by or rather after the birth of the baby (this type of
depression is known as post-partum depression); this being
caused by the hormones build-up during pregnancy and then total
cut-off after the birth of the baby.
Again the women and depression combination will be obvious at
the time of the onset of menopause, again due to hormone
imbalance in the body, coupled with the fact that, with old
age, women feel unwanted, worthless, un-loved, and so on. This
is even more serious when the woman in question was an
outstanding beauty in her youth.
In spite of the modern technology, so many really significant
breakthroughs in medicine and cosmetic industry, nothing has
been found yet which can break off the women and depression for
too long. There is another factor which contributes to the
women and depression aspect, and that is the fact the women
mostly ignore their feeling, writing them off as
unimportant.
Depression becomes a habit to women, and by and by it develops
into chronic depression, which makes recovery very difficult,
but, of course, not impossible. The first step towards cure and
treatment is to recognize that you (the woman/ women) have a
problem, and that the problem is an emotional one. No sooner
you accept this fact that you are on your way to
recovery!
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